It is not selfish in nature to serve yourself first. As it states in Genshai - "Never treat another person in a manner that would make them feel small including yourself." Also emphasized in sacred writ is "Love thy neighbor as thyself ." We need to honor and love ourselves first. Then our abundance flows to us and through us.
You cannot give what you do not have.
“Abundance is my birthright. I need to think abundantly. It’s time to release the unlimited potential within. It is time to begin my own Genshai journey.” Do you reflect abundance as you hold yourself in your own excellence? Do you treat yourself with love, honor and respect?